What Happens When You Resolve to Pray?

Have you ever had  thoughts like this?

  • I don’t believe prayer will change anything!
  • Praying sounds so easy to do, but it’s not.
  • My prayers are never answered.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had these thoughts. Life can be frustrating when things don’t go my way, especially when it seems like one trial comes on the tail end of another. I’ve wanted to shout to God, “When will I get a break?”

I sometimes see families interact and wonder what’s going on in their lives. How is it that they can spend a whole day laughing and smiling? It’s not that I wish terrible things to happen, but I wonder why some people appear to have an easier life while others struggle. It makes me think the saying, “life isn’t fair,” is true.

Why Do We Need To Resolve To Pray?

Maybe the problem is me. I don’t have a consistent prayer life or perhaps I don’t have the right attitude about prayer.

To me, prayer is more than just asking God for things. It’s also taking the time to praise Him for the things He created, and then listening for His response. I love to praise God in prayer when things are good, but it is harder when things aren’t going so well. Like when our house burned down or when my husband was diagnosed with cancer, praise was harder then. I cherished the time my husband and I spent praying together because it brought us each closer to God. Of course, I prayed for a miracle, but my husband still died. It was hard to accept at first until I realized the miracle was God healed him in heaven.

I wish I could be a role model when it comes to prayer, but the truth is I often let other things distract me from doing it. I look forward to my time on the road because I think long trips offer quiet time to give God my undivided attention. Well, that is, until I turn on the radio on and forget about prayer time. After my devotion, I have good intentions to type up my prayers, but the minute I turn the computer on I go to Facebook instead out of habit. Oh, I do say my prayers at night, but often fall asleep before I get all the way through them.

I need to be more like Daniel in the Bible. He made praying a habit — kneeling down three times a day. He was so obedient to God that others became jealous and decided to plot against him. Daniel’s strong prayer life helped him develop a powerful relationship with God. So, when the bad guys threw Daniel into a lion’s den, God shut the mouths of the lions and Daniel was not harmed. That’s the power of prayer!

As I make my New Year’s resolutions this year, I will resolve to pray. When I pray (in all times — good and bad), I will strengthen my relationship with God.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. – Philippians 4:6

How To Make Time To Pray This Year

I struggled to write the blog this week because how can I encourage anyone to pray if I haven’t resolved to do the same. I searched to find the right words to share. Then my coach reminded me that no one does 100% of the right things 100% of the time. When I thought about it, I realized I can share the importance and power of prayer even though I am still working on it myself.

I have found comfort in reading a daily devotion from Joyce Meyer’s book, Love Out Loud. I started doing this regularly about five months ago, and most of the time I journal about how the teaching relates to my life. Each month I share one of my daily devotions with you. Why don’t you join me in my prayer and bible study? You can pick up a copy of the book on Amazon.  

As a writer, I don’t mind journaling. It’s kind of a written prayer and allows me to spend more time with God. Occasionally, I will read back through my prayer journal and see how God answered my request. Whether it’s praying out loud or writing down it down,  each draw me closer to God.

What If I Don’t Like The Results Of Prayer?

Whether you received the answer you want or not, the humility of prayer is what’s most important. Praying will strengthen your soul in hard times. It will provide wisdom to make better decisions. Prayer helps us develop a “best friend” relationship with God. Knowing God is always near will carry you during sad times. God listens to our prayers and delivers us from trouble. God will always love you. He will never leave you or disown you. Prayer connects us to all God has to offer.

I am learning that I can always count on God to provide comfort and peace throughout my life. Prayer is a way to connect with His comfort and peace. Daniel had a habit of praying, whether things were going good or bad. I am resolving to do the same, knowing that God’s power will deliver me.

“We can never underestimate the power of worshipping God. Our prayer and worship needs to be a habit and we need to keep doing it, no matter what anyone says. When enemies or circumstances rise against us, we can count on God to hear our prayers, receive our worship, and deliver us.” – Joyce Meyer, Love Out Loud

God wants us to communicate with Him through it all. Just as one best friend shares with another, we should eagerly share with our Heavenly Father. It all comes down to commitment. Consistent prayer will draw us closer to God and connect us to His deliverance power… and ultimately strengthen our resolve.

This week join me in saying this mantra every morning: “Hear my prayer, O Lord

Why not purchase Love Out Loud and join me in this study… and resolve to pray?  

What Happens When You Resolve to Pray




What keeps you from praying on a regular basis? What ideas do you have for strengthening your prayer life?

Share with me in the comments below.


By | 2017-01-18T13:29:32+00:00 January 18th, 2017|Daily Devotions, Inspiration|4 Comments

About the Author:

My name is Susan W (sue) Corbran. I am a writer, a Creative Memories consultant, a volunteer in Children's Ministry at my church, and an advocate for widows and gay Christians. I love helping people - whether it is by sharing my stories; consulting with others on how to preserve their most precious memories - photos and ways to tell their stories; or helping children learn about God - and for them to know that He loves them, no matter what! I am a Mom and a Grandma. I love to golf, travel, read, and listen to music (and play the piano and guitar, when available - simple songs!). Oh and I love to write - so be sure to read some of my blogs. I am a co-author of the book Emerge: Real Stories of Courage and Truth, An Amazon Best Seller, 2015, along with The Call to Soar, an Amazon Best Seller, 2016. An author of the ebook Five Simple Ways to Love Gay Christians You Need to Know Now, 2017, and other numerous blogs and articles for magazine contests. This year, 2017, I plan to publish a series of books for young adult (ages 9-14) in the genre of Christian Life. I also hope to publish a book of childhood memories (to share with my grandchildren). My hope is that God willl be praised and glorified by my writing for Him.


  1. Roger King January 19, 2017 at 10:49 am - Reply

    Susan, Thank you for sharing YOUR heart regarding the struggle to pray. If we are all honest, we should say the same! Even for me, there are times when “prayer” seems to be more of a struggle than a blessing. But the beauty is, even in THAT, God KNOWS our heart. He knows the intent we have BEFORE we even think about! Journaling is one form of prayer that I personally believe everyone should put into practice. Why? because God says “remind ME of MY word to perform it” as well as “My WORD will NOT return to ME void (or not accomplished)”. (paraphrase mine). I enjoyed the post! Looking forward to reading more! Blessings.

    • Susan January 19, 2017 at 11:24 am - Reply

      Thanks for your comments, Roger. It’s funny how easy it is to be honest about some things, but not so much other things, such as my walk with God. I am thankful to be on a journey with Him, though. I’m not sure what I would have done without Him all these years. Hope you get your own book done this year. Take care.

  2. Julie January 18, 2017 at 7:16 pm - Reply

    Really great post, Sue. As much as I desire to be a prayer warrior, it seems that Satan attacks by dangling shiny things in front of me to divert my attention. It doesn’t take much, and my mind is off wandering to other things. Work, bills I need to pay, what to have for lunch, wondering what my kids are doing, are all thoughts that I drift to. Like the wife in War Room, I need to be more focused, quiet myself before God, go to a place that has no distractions, and let the Holy Spirit lead me in heartfelt thanksgiving and prayer.

    • Susan January 18, 2017 at 10:29 pm - Reply

      Thanks Julie for acknowledging your own need to pray more. It always amazes me how simple it is to sit down and pray, yet I don’t do it often enough. Thanks again for having lunch with me while I was in Meadville. Looks like you’re having great weather up there for January. Tell the Life Group I said hello. Take care.

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